Couples’ we-ness and separateness during the  COVID-19 pandemic and lockdown:  A longitudinal perspective

[en] This 5-wave longitudinal study aimed to monitor the feeling of we-ness and separateness over one year of the COVID-19 pandemic by examining partners’ natural pronoun usage when reporting couple interactions. Compared to the start of the pandemic, a general decline of we-ness was found after one year. Moreover, the changes in couple we-ness were non-linear, resulting in an increase at the end of the strict lockdown, followed by a decrease. No change in couple separateness was found.

Disciplines :

Theoretical & cognitive psychology

DOI :

10.1177/0261927X221138

Author, co-author :

Galdiolo, Sarah ; Université de Mons - UMONS

Mauroy, Anthony ; Université de Mons - UMONS > Faculté de Psychologie et des Sciences de l'Education > Service de Psychologie clinique

Verhofstadt, Lesley; UZ Gent - University Hospital Ghent [BE]

Language :

English

Title :

Couples’ we-ness and separateness during the COVID-19 pandemic and lockdown: A longitudinal perspective

Publication date :

20 January 2023

Journal title :

Journal of Language and Social Psychology

ISSN :

0261-927X

eISSN :

1552-6526

Publisher :

SAGE, New York, United States - New York

Peer reviewed :

Peer Reviewed verified by ORBi

Research unit :

P353 - Psychologie clinique

Research institute :

R550 - Institut des Sciences et Technologies de la Santé
R250 - Institut de recherche pour le Développement sociétal et territorial

Data Set :

https://doi.org/10.1177/0261927X221138

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